CH, it's not that. It might be hard for you to understand.
When a woman takes her husband's name she becomes subsumed into another identity that's blended with yours. Crikey man, even your credit history is blended.

Imagine YOU were the one that had to change all their identification to one your husband "owns".


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Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.