I don't think that those things are small or trite grr! Not at all. It does sound like the crap that I would pull though. Unfortunately.

As far as your confusion on your H's behavior or the looks that he gives you... I think that this is pretty normal. Some of it might be H being a good guy... some of it might be the hope inside of you... and some of it might be regret on his part.

For now, your reaction should be the same regardless. Indifference. Indifference to his behavior and/or the looks that he gives you.

I hope that you have a GREAT day tomorrow grr!

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W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce