denver you know what that sounds like to me? that the other man is there to make you jealous as sort of a reactionary thing, if you will she is using him to test you if you were just speaking of reconciliation, it makes no sense that she could be swayed from her husband for someone who did something nice on valentines day i really think she is just making sure you stick to your commitment "because if you don't, there is someone else who will" and the like i really think that's what it is
