Valentine's Twist....What to do....if anything....

[zengypsy]

i loved what you did
and it will make him curious
lets put it this way, if he does think "great she has someone else" then it would not have mattered anyway and he does not deserve you

i hope you are ok
i know yesterday was hard on many levels

gosh - i wish we could just drop this stuff and get on with our lives and being happy - know what i mean?


More than you know grr.. more than you know. I just really miss my H every day even though he can be an a$$ and is being an A$$.

The other thing I did yesterday was send my MIL and step-FIL and e-card for their Valentine Anniv. My MIL and I have a jaded relationship, but I always sent her a paper card from H and I. I was grappling with what to do as she hasn;t been very nice to me during this whole process. Ya know, her son can do no wrong. But I did a 180 and sent the ecard. No response which was fine; didn't want one. But I keep making all these changes that appear to be throwing everyone for a loop. It feels good not in an arrogant way, but in a good way that the stuff I've been learning is actually being applied.

xoxo