The unexamined life is not worth living

[Denver_2010]

Until you guys decide what your doing, its a moot point right?
(cue up This is War)
Right?

Cause...I might have read it wrong, but I thought she left the ball in your court about reconcilling, I thought you agreed to it based upon what you said...

I might have read that wrong, but if I didn't whats all this might pussyfooting around crapp?

I don't think that I did a very good job of describing the conversations that I had with W yesterday.

In the afternoon, W brought up R talk but asking me "where are you with everything after Thursday night?" I responded by telling her that I was going through a range of emotions. She kind of pressed me on whether I was still leaning towards working on our M. I told her in no uncertain terms that I was.

After that, our talk was mostly about logistics of getting to a point where we could start serious reconciliation... mainly about her having to have a talk with OM, hurting his feelings, etc.

So when I got off the phone with her, I thought that it was a done deal... that we were going to reconcile and that it was just a matter of tying up the lose ends.

BUT conversation with W last night was a little bit different... not much. I THINK that more of the discouragement was in my head than anything.

W had gotten to her house from work and found that OM had done some 'really nice things' for her for Vday. That led into her talking about how it is hard for her to just let go of this guy who is so nice to her to go back to our M. She said to me that "I feel like I should give us a chance with everything you are saying"... but... "then I think about our history"...

I validated everything and W told me that she'd be in touch. Well, I took that conversation as somewhat less sure than the one earlier in the day. So, I assume that it is still up in the air to a degree and that the ball is in her court.

Make sense??


Thanks for all of the advice Jack!!

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Denver