My H was the WAS who initally went to see a L 2 days after he left the first time and came back 12/26//09 and announced he wanted a D. He moced out Feb. 2010 and didn't actually file until Oct. 2010. So I think he did a little of both; pushed hard and then waffled.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
