Need Advice!! Not sure on next move? Part 2

[zengypsy]

FL:

I resonate with your posts. All the things our W feels that you lised is the exact same that my H feels. I will admit that I am not an overly religious person, BUT, I loved the Fruits of the Spirit and the idea of finding a small plastic fruit thing, putting it on the table etc. It's very cleaver in a very positive way. I think I may try to find one in a dollar store just as a reminder for myself and how far I've come on this unwanted journey. Having said that, this unwanted journey has forced me to better represent myself everyday.

Welcome to the BITS btw...!