There is a fine line between her pursuing her own happiness and leaving because of your unhappiness.
Your unhappiness fed your failures and the demise of your M.
Right now you are not competing with other man as much as you are competing with this in her mind.
Denver at no other point in your journey is it more important than right now to be the man you desire to be.
This is not easy as you already know.
It is not pride you are swallowing, it is history.
She needs to see right now a man that has the courage to do that.
ACTIONS not words.
I am telling you Denver you have a great opportunity here and when you look at the man in the mirror
The man you have become and are still becoming. And let that guy make choices and live his life...
There is no way to fail here.
I am proud to know you and be witness to this endeavor you have decided to mount.
Now do it.
Thank you Truegritter... that is all wonderful advice that I really take to heart.
"There is a fine line between her pursuing her own happiness and leaving because of your unhappiness."
I see this. Thank you for saying it. It is so true.
And yes, I remember the squirrel...
Gotta love that analogy!
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce