I still try and figure out what I did that built up so much "resentment" in me.
For the first couple of months I wondered this too, then I realized, it was their MLC mind helping them to justify their actions. Really, it's not you, it's her!! Really!
Blessings!
Careful with this ...
It can be very easy to throw around the term MLC and forget that any marriage had it's faults, and as such had two people responsible for them. MOST of what an MLCer says is justification and rationalization ... but if any of it stings ... please, look at that. Examine your role in the dynamic that was your marriage. This is a time to work on yourself, and those nuggets of truth can give us really good places to start.
Take care, Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
