Here is a suggestion for you and it might be fun. Go to a store that sells those little plastic dinner plate ornaments and see if you can find a small plastic fruit thingy - small enough that you can put it in your purse, or even take it out and put it on the table beside your plate - to remind you of the Fruits of the Spirit during your dinner - just like snapping the elastic band on your wrist thing -only this will be more FUN. If you have a little banana, apple or pear sitting there during dinner you H is going to look at that and go "what is that for ???" - if he asks you can just say something like "inspiration" and leave him wondering WHAT has gotten into you. You can just sit there and smile peacefully knowing that its YOU AND GOD sitting there across from him - he does not stand a chance against the two of you.
If you go into this dinner with a smile in your heart and actually have some fun with it - I will guarantee you one thing - he is going to be leaving that dinner thinking to himself -WHAT HAS GOTTEN INTO THAT WOMAN ??? and what's with the happy face on her ???? He will go home thinking about you - and CONFUSED - this is a good thing.
Messing with his mind a bit never hurt - as long as its done with love -which you have in spades.
Good on ya girl - go get em.
FL
FL
M-58 W-56 Married 33 years BOMB -Sept/10 Separated 8 months
BITS (of Fruit) Firstlove
"Go Confidently in the direction of YOUR dreams - Live the life you've imagined" - Thoreau