Hi! Just read through your post, and I am so sorry for all you have been through.
Is it not your H's place to take care of his mother? I think you have done enough .... you looked after his dad (after all the things he has said about you) and now his mother. Why is this on your shoulders?
I would've done the same thing for my daughter and to protect my other children from similar abuse.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim