Maybe that's what hurts so much ... the fact that she's got to go re-claim her "old" identity. Maybe it's just an MLC thing that she needs to go through. I still try and figure out what I did that built up so much "resentment" in me. Or maybe she'd just decided that she'd gotten what she wanted from me ... children ... and when the financial turmoil of a business hit by tough economic times put me in a position where I was no longer providing the large income and home, she decided she'd gotten all she was going to get out of a 15 year marriage.
