Well Alamo, I would be there. It's not like this is just a check up, this is serious stuff. None of your wife's movtive's have been honorable this far, so I would not trust this at all.
Besides doesn't she make you out to be a bad father. Time to show what a good dad you are and how concerned you are with all of this. It is just MHO, but something is fishy here. I would go. Don't take no for an answer.
Good luck tomorrow. I will be thinking of you!
Me:35, 2 kids from PR H: 37, 2 kids with me T: 15 years M: 8 years in Feb. Second walk out: 14-01-2011 H had PA: 2007