Need Advice!! Not sure on next move? Part 2

[Firstlove]

Dixie

Just my two cents worth here as you go to the dinner showing your H the "new" Dixie. No matter what he says - you show the following

FIRST
Three things in human life are important. The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. The third is to be kind. Henry James

SECOND
One of the main things that my W maintains without reservation is that it is literally IMPOSSIBLE for me to change and I will always be the self-centered controlling manipulative person she sees me as being. One of my prayers is that irregardless of what she says, does or in fact does not do, that in everything I say and do she will see the Fruits of the Spirit living thru my actions and my words. As you well know the Fruits of the Spirit are;

Love, Peace, Faithfulness, Joy Goodness, Gentleness, Patience, Self-control and Kindness.

We all have opportunities each and every day to exhibit these fruits with everyone we come into contact with.

So my advice to you on the dinner with your H - is be a FRUITY as possible - but you know what I mean. Irrespective of what he says or does not say or do, let him see the Fruit on your tree of life, and if he does decide to D he will see what he is walking away from and will be missing in his life should he choose to make that very grave error in his life.

Just my two cents worth here

FL