UPDATE 3:40pm

Okay, I need anybody's feedback on this... I'm not sure what to make of this:

My wife calls and asks me to let our childcare provider know that our son won't be coming in until before lunch tomorrow. She said she's going to take him to a child psychologist to evaluate how he's doing. I said okay, no problem. Then I asked my wife if I should be there too, since he's being psych-evaluated for what's going on with our family. My wife said no, not yet. We'll have to wait and see.

What do you think might be going on here? Only tomorrow will tell what her true reason for doing this. Is she genuinely concerned of our son's well being? Or worse, is she trying to build a medical case against me? I mean, what if she uses porn as the basis of the visit, i.e. My husband is a porn addict and how is my child affected?

No wonder she called this morning asking if our son had health insurance. He does not, so I wonder who or how my wife is paying for this psych visit. Rich parents to the rescue again? Or maybe she's forking the cost herself. If so, shouldn't I offer to pay half?

TIA for your replies!


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
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I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
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