Hmmm...this poses an interesting twist. I don't mean threadjack 2, but another question as a tangent from your response....
I have often said that my H will have regret someday because I won't be part of the equation any longer after the D is final so he can't blame me for everything and more. His problems are portable. To which someone replied but if he gets involved with another person, the problems you all had might pale in comparison to the way you and he handled them vs. how he and the new person handles them. The new person may handle them better. A wise friend said that that new person can bring in their own set of problems.
It's all very confusing to me.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
