Hold Me Tight. I saw it on the thread for Piecing. Because I realized that if I can't have a conversation without 2Step, then I'm in big trouble. I found it pretty enlightening. Navy was just asking about this too.
It really helped me because it let me understand very clearly that everything all of us are feeling is very, very normal. That we are wired to save our relationships. It also explained very clearly why WAS's feel the way they do. Essentially it said that when our relationship is being threatened we have two responses: fight or flight/clinging. Basically our spouses chose flight. We are clinging. But we both are reacting to the same exact thing: our relationship is being threatened.
I'm only a third the way through the book. It is heavy on psychology, but I kind of like it because it is totally applicable to all our situations.
