Originally Posted By: MichelleLT


I'll tell you a little secret that most newcomers don't believe. THE LBS DECIDES THE FATE OF THE MARRIAGE OVER 80% OF THE TIME.

NOT the WAS.



Thank you for that.

Originally Posted By: MichelleLT

You are trying to start a NEW MARRIAGE with her, not revive the old one. She doesn't want things to go back to how they were, and you can't either!

You are not only starting from square one as if dating someone new, but you are starting from a NEGATIVE because of the past hurts.

Patience.



And bless you for that.

grin

I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?