Recovering after a same sex affair

[sparks14]

Ok, now that I understand a little better...

I think, if it was me, I don't know if I would use either of the words...

I would simply say, I didn't know what was going on, however I felt something was not right, so I did this. I should have asked you directly. I am sorry.

Honest, direct, no blaming of any sort.

Just my opinion so take it for what it is worth.

I generally am not one to beat around the bush too much.

Thanks, cat. Honest. Direct. No blaming.

that sounds where I want to be with this.