I respect Bond's opinions, and he is a 'vet', but I don't see confronting OM as a good idea at all Islander.

How will your W react if you do? Will it push her farther away, or draw her closer to you? Do you think that you can end the A if you do??

BITS
Denver

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce