Originally Posted By: cat04
Ok Sparks,

I am gonna second Figgeroni.

Apolgize. If you feel the need to explain, tell her what was going through your head at the time.

Betrayal and avoidance, unless I am missing something, don't even have similar definitions.

Can you explain what you mean by this?


Cat, I agree with you and Figg here. It was just something my therapist tossed out last night. He said that betrayal has an extremely negative tone to it. If I can somehow use the word avoidance instead, it might make the conversation a little less harsh.

Mach brought up a good point as far as using positive language.

It just doesn't add up for me in this circumstance.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated