I don't see any benefit to contacting him. He knows what he is doing is wrong, and so dies my W. I got a lot of feedback on here too, and the consensus was not to contact OM
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...
I respect Bond's opinions, and he is a 'vet', but I don't see confronting OM as a good idea at all Islander.
How will your W react if you do? Will it push her farther away, or draw her closer to you? Do you think that you can end the A if you do??
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
Don't worry, I am not going to contact OM. My problems are with my W. I need her to want to do the right thing. I may have pushed her away the other day, but I only spoke the truth bi was not mean to her. I feel like I don't have that much more to lose, but I know I do
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...
I have not talked to my W since lunch on Monday. I almost wish she would contact me so that I could not respond. I think that is the wrong way to think.
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...
I feel alone in my empty house. I don't see how this feeling will ever go away. I keep thinking that my W is gone for good and nothing will bring her back
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...
Damn Islander... I wish that there was something that I could say to ease your pain. I know what that feels like very well. It hurts just as much if we had literally been stabbed in the heart.
It WILL get better with TIME. That's the best answer that I can give you.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
It has been 4 days since I had any contact with my W. She sent me a text yesterday letting me know to call her on her work phone if I needed her. WTF. I did not respond to her. I did like that i got a text from her. Atleast I know she was thinking about me. About 3 hours before she sent me the text, she got into an argument with her parents and told them she was filing for divorce. I don't really feel that well that last few days
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...
