Only thing you can say is I understand or nothing at all.
Ignore all of what they say and half of what they do as MWD says. Just because she's not able to trust you enough now doesn't mean things can't change.
Soak in the words Michelle says here. Also she said she thinks she can't etc....key word...thinks. IMHO, the words thinks is not a solid definitive. She's just spinning her tires in the mud at the moment. She wants to trust you but that wall she's built to protect herself is telling her it's not a great idea. It's an internal struggle for our WAS's too. She IS hearing you. Trust has to be earned in time and with patience and actions.
Stay focused. I'm still not convinced she is done. Have a better afternoon.
(((HUGS)))
zen,
She is guarded and she is trying to protect herself. I think I a lack of concentration moment and got over zelous. That tell me I am not detaching well and that I am still learning about myself. I wish I could see my sitch as clearly as I see others
