Do you think that I should just dive into using the avoidance? I was thinking more in line as just stating it as a matter of fact that my therapist suggested we use the word due to the heavy tone of the word betrayal. "We have been tossing this word betrayal around pretty loosely. I think it would be better if instead we used the word avoidance instead."
I think it would depend on how it is played out...
IF you are accusing HER of betrayal...yea, take a couple eye patches for yourself , you can put those on when yours are scratched out...
Admitting betrayal in your actions...???
Maybe that is the honesty you have been missing...