Thank you for your advice. I just had a physical and thankfully no STDs.

What makes me crazy is that yesterday he gave me the most beautiful card with a sincere note inside. He even gave me a gift. He told me he loves me. Three times in a week now. I must sound completely pathetic. I keep thinking that he wouldn't act this way toward me if things hadn't changed. I don't know. It's only been a week since the phone call bomb.

So...will move forward the best I know how. Thanks for the words all....


Me - 49
H - 56
S - 23
D - 20
Married 25 years
H moved out 10/11/13
H moved back in 10/13/13
H moved out again 8/1/14