Thank you for your advice. I just had a physical and thankfully no STDs.
What makes me crazy is that yesterday he gave me the most beautiful card with a sincere note inside. He even gave me a gift. He told me he loves me. Three times in a week now. I must sound completely pathetic. I keep thinking that he wouldn't act this way toward me if things hadn't changed. I don't know. It's only been a week since the phone call bomb.
So...will move forward the best I know how. Thanks for the words all....
Me - 49 H - 56 S - 23 D - 20 Married 25 years H moved out 10/11/13 H moved back in 10/13/13 H moved out again 8/1/14