You can do ANYTHING. Remember that. You don't want to, I got that. You can't? I'm not buying. Listen, I'm separated right now in a new place too. I had 0 friends also. I got it. I know the pain. I am doing ok and you will too if that is what you want to do.
You cannot make a single decision right now in regards to this. You are too upset and understandably so. I feel like I was sucker punched and I don't even know you and your wife. I cannot even begin to imagine how you are feeling.
The other thing is that you do not know what she will say tonight or tomorrow. I think that even when you do settle down a little bit, she might change her mind tomorrow. So I think you need to live with this for a few days and kind of get her temperature.
The important thing right now is that you stay calm. Know that there are a lot of people here to listen to you. Know that there are a lot of people who care about you. Know that there are a lot of people here who want to help you.
Also maybe you can post another thread - Put 911 emergency - need some vets or something. We really need some vets here like Sandi/Jack/others who have been through this reconciliation process. I know you posted on the other forum but not sure how much traffic is over there.
I'm praying for you, sweetie. STAY CALM. No decisions need to be made right this second.
