Do you think if you asked her to think this over well, as there are many issues and feelings (kids, career, etc) to consider, she will give it some thought? And at the same time let her know that whatever her decision you will support it? And that you and she can plan this well on a less emotional basis?
I am just saying this because not too long ago she said she wanted it to work out, so its not like this is a well thogught out plan.
I can definitely do most of that. See, I don't think that a move AND a separation will work. I'm in a completely new place - HER old place with very little friends and ZERO knowledge of the place. Plus, I'm away from where my career is.
I can handle all of that IF we're together working on it but not if we aren't. Am I making sense? Am I wrong?
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
