I hear ya grr but I'm not sure we "jumped back in". I didn't think things were perfect but we had decided to work on it. I do consider this work. I just need a working partner - EVEN if that means the work she has to do for now is just let it happen.

I see your point and will definitely reread the post to let it become a part of my thought process...

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE