hey boltie i am here for you...we all are just like you've been here for us
maybe what happened is that it all happened too soon you know? you two might have jumped right back into the swing of things too fast and now she just needs to step back none of this is black and white
i have said before, the mistake that h and i had made (more than once) was just jumping back in....what would have been more beneficial to us would to have taken in very slowly because when you don't. it's like the other thing never existed and while one of you is relieved, the other might be unsure and feel like they are living a lie
give her the time to reconcile organically
be positive, and keep your space lovingly
i know it will work out for you i really do patience or a spanking
