Basically it means don't over analyze things! I see people on here that get angst over ... "they brought me a cup of coffee" (does this mean the love me).... "he ML to me 4 times in the past two days" ( are we reconciling)
They say and do weird things .... period... they are acting off the cuff... so best to ignore these things and go your course.
If they want to reconcile... you'll be the first to know. Other wise DB for you. It's the best thing for YOUR mental health.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too