Let me ask you a quick question ... what would the old sparks that your W hates ... what would he do in this meeting? Would he justify his actions? Would he make it a fight?

Do the opposite. See how your W reacts.

B.I.T.S

Formerly known as onStepAtATime
Me:31 W:31
T:13 yrs M:8 yrs
D: 20 months
ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10
"I want a separation" 1/05/11