Your words are the boost and push in the right direction for me. I loose track a lot. You're right about me not having enough self-respect. The biggest challenge I think is my son. I may be able to look past what my wife is doing and all, but when I look at my son, I see her in him all the time. Some of his mannerisms, some of his looks - they're mommy's. And I allow myself to drop my DB/DR strategies more frequently than I like to.