With your actions, reactions and words are you going to strengthen this idea in her mind, or weaken it?
As for the calls.
Posting of personal information will get you moderated and monitored at best, a delay on your posts, banned at worst. I know the reasons why, but I also know how helpful it can be.
Bolt and Harrier, not to scare you, but at times I thought my wife and I was piecing, and it turned out not so much. You should check out my first thread and some of the communications.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK