you were really upset that her brother got her stuff for Valentine's day and then you told her you were upset because you couldn't
holy pressure there buddy
you need to relax
getting stuff from her brother was NOT about rejecting you not everything she does is a personal affront to you
and
then she had to try to make you feel better about you feeling like you couldn't get her anything????
Sparks you need to man up and grow a set here (and I don't mean that to sound super harsh but it is a harsh reality)
if that is something you did with me (and I am not your wife) I would want to smack you simpering around and being bent out of shape is NOT attractive
(sidetrack) 2 years after my divorce, I was dating two guys...they both knew about each other...no secrets. One was confident and let me know he liked me but he was willing to hang out for a bit while I decided...never did he say he would wait forever...he said he was OK with it now but would let me know when he wasn't.
the other was a clinger...he constantly sent me lovey cards and called just to hear my voice and when I finally broke up with him because I liked the other guy better and it was to a point where I didn't want it to be casual anymore he went into hardcore persuing he bought me a $500 necklace (Not a jewelry fan) he sent me tickets and money and flowers and cried and told me how much he loved me I didn't want to hurt his feelings because he was a nice guy but it was like instead of caring that I didn't want THIS anymore, he cared more about how he felt...he even came for Christmas and cried and said he wanted a Christmas Miracle...really???
very unattractive to be that needy
needless to say, I brought him to a hotel and never spoke to him again (and returned all his jewelry etc and gave him back the money)
no one wants a needy nancy
you need to suck it up
what beautiful flowers...I am glad your brother and his girlfriend remembered Gerbera Daisies are your favorite...(s look to her brother) thanks for remembering
smile
don't make her comfort you weakness and vulnerability are two different things weakness is NOT attractive
