Her asking you to watch the movie with her was very positive. Also, your willingness to give up your workout was also very unselfish and positive at the same time. Too bad you couldn't stay awake. Every interaction we have with our spouse is an oppourtunity to DB and show that we have changed. Easier said then done!

The message to her was clear...

You can stay up late for something you are interested in doing, but you can't stay up late for her.

Keep your game face on and be ready for the next scoring chance.