I don't comment often but I must say that the thought of allowing someone to expose me to STD's is scary. You know nothing of the other woman and where else she has been. At the end of the day, your health is more important.
I believe in DB'ing but not at the expense of this issue. I say this because my EXH Ow gave him H and he unknowingly exposed me. ( I am two years free of anything else he exposed me to and I never contracted H either) Even after we reconciled the first time and I knew he had it but he was on medication.... I found the prescription bottle and found out he wasn't taking the medication after awhile.
Please do not put yourself at risk.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too