denver...
I do NOT think she is cake eating at all

truegritter is right...
she would be cake eating if she hadn't already moved on
but she did

you need to stop focusing on the symptom (OM) and start focusing more on the problem (what brought you to a point where an OM was even an option)

do you want to focus on the headache and take lots of tylenol etc
or
do you want to focus ont he brain tumor that is causing the headaches