Should have banished him to the backseat with a face mask LOL.
Take care of yourself now. Don't let it get worse by pushing yourself too hard.
I definitely understand it making your day. That was a super sweet gesture and gift. This one is definitely one for the record books. Maybe even the mirror so you never forget!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
I do have to say I'm still a little floored by yesterday. Riding the high. I had gotten tickets for us to go see George Lopez in concert in a couple of weeks. He absolutely loved it and immediately told his boss there was no way he was working that night and he could fire him if he had a problem with that because he was having 'date night'. WAY out of the norm for him.
There is an important date coming up in March. He will be able to appeal the state review board's decision to pull his certificates. I hope this is successful. He is kind of counting on getting them back and getting his career back and I would hate to see what happens to him if it doesn't work out.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
That was incredibly sweet of him. And hysterical about taking that night off! That's so awesome.
I will keep my fingers crossed about the review! I am sure that would really make him happy. It probably seems like that would erase some of the craziness of the last couple years, he'd be able to really put it behind him and get back on track financially. Does he have to go in person or is it just a review of his file?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
He will have to go for an interview in front of a review panel. He can't submit the applicaton for appeal until March and they only meet twice a year so it could be the end of the year before he hears anything.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
I heard a really great idea on the radio today. The show is out of Dallas and really didn't like them at first but oh well, they grew on me.
The idea they had was to write yourself a letter about the things you like or even love about you. The host had to read theirs on the air. I think we all could do this and be surprised. One of the gals was even saying how she loved her legs! lol It can be personality traits as well. Try this Mish, I am.
Big hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
We went home to switch cars around and low and behold.........he got me 4 hand dipped chocolate covered strawberries and a card and wrote a super sweet sentiment in it. HOLY COW! Knock me over with a feather!
One thing I did wrong during our pre A marriage was ... I didnt think H could give me things like that. I had forgotten how he used to do and my whole attitude was telling him "you would never think of that!!!" etc etc. Guess what? OW expected so much from him and he delivered. SOOOOOO, mish, start dealing with Gabe as if he were a responsible mature loving man. Even if reality is far from that, I think men love to feel we think of them capable of making us happy (which of course we know isnt the right psycological approach since we are responsible for our own happiness etc etc etc). xxx K
Great post Kalni -- this is precisely what I was getting at in my post about the marriage sermons. It is too easy not to give people space to shine. And, it is what I'm talking about when I say people are being arrogant when they think they know all about what the WAS will do, say, think, feel, be capable of, etc....
If we keep a beginner's mind and give people space to shine, a lot can happen.
