I am trying to do this with my H who left in december. He has filed papers recently and im frantic. Ive cut off the phone calls, etc. He doesnt initiate any communication tho. How will he see any changes or hear any changes? This is confusing to me. The only communication we have is its a house question like something needing fixing. He will not answer any personal questions regardings our S. Im so worried its to late. This is the hardest thing ever to deal with. Do they ever come back after the papers have been filed? When he left he said this was all my fault. He did or maybe still is having an EA. Ive asked begged,cried offered solutions to try and make this work but never get a response. Since he filed ive cut the communication but i am so afraid he means business. Im so confused. I want to work on things because i know there were many good years together. What confuses me about stopping calls, etc., is that making him think we both can be rational adults and the D will go smoother or will it make him want to try at our marriage because of the changes he sees.
