I so feel for you, man. Now can you help me understand this a little better: is the guilt you're describing stemming from your separation from your daughter, or something more self-esteem related?

You need to hang in there with GALing. You're doing great, just try not too let that guilt creep in. You're doing it for yourself mainly. But in some way, for your daughter and wife as well. They will benefit from your improvements. Are you also combining your GALs with 180s/LRTs? Just out of curiosity.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112