One other thing. People who leave have no timetable. Get that out of your head and focus on what you want out of your life and out of your relationships. The rest will fall into place, but always be kind. As the old saying goes, choose soft and sweet words, because you may have to eat them later The timetable is rubbish. I've known plenty of people who years after their divorce get back together. Why? Because it isn't about you when it all comes down to it. Not to say you were perfect. Far from it. Neither was she. That becomes much more apparent after much time has passed in many cases. Not all of course.
Be patient. Be consistent. Be your new improved self. Be the father you always wanted to be. Be the man you always wanted to be and the rest will fall into place regardless of the relationship outcome. Really.
AJ
Thank you for the reminder and welcomed pep talk, AJ. I would like to be one of those people you knew who got back together years later too. Well, sooner is better, of course.
