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Ok. Goal this AM.

1. I will not call or text wife today.

We have couples therapy tonight at 6:30, so I am sure she will ask me at some point what time she wants me to pick her up.

I am also kind of cheating at this point, because she did come over at 7:30 this morning to pickup my S but brought breakfast and stuck around until 10:00 while I worked. These are both good signs.

Have to start with easy goals first, though. Detaching is something I have been working on, and I often find myself missing my wife and sending her a ton of texts throughout the day.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
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I saw a quote for this post and for us all relative to goals - here it is

"You cannot score - without a goal"

Just saying smile

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Separated 8 months

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ha!!
that is a great reminder firstlove..thanks


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you bet

and grr - can YOU tell me what BITS stands for ?


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i just found this out recently
it started with" brothers in the sh*t" and has widened to include us girls "babes in the sh*T" tho hating that last word i would prefer" stuff"


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Grrr

Thanks - I will offer up an alternative for us to consider

"Bravehearts In The Struggle"

you and me - BITS

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"Go Confidently in the direction of YOUR dreams - Live the life you've imagined"
- Thoreau
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Made it to the archery league shot a 284 out of 300 with 24 X rings.
Goal tonight move the old kerosene heaters out of the basement and into the barn.
Visit Mom.
Stay centered


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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
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at least 40 minutes on my treadmill
pay bills
clean out some drawers
how exciting am i?


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