I can definately see how it would be hard to believe someone saying that they have given up porn. For myself if my H said to me he was done with it I do think I would probably think he was lying. It is a really tough one to prove. I don't think it is even something that should be discussed between you 2 right now. She is just finding more reasons to end the marriage. All you can do is be true to yourself with this. As long as you know you are working on it and doing your best, that is all that matters.

I am glad V-day is over. It looks like yours wasn't that great either. Good to see you had a fun time with your S though. Keep DBing. You are doing great.


Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007