I didn't hear anymore from H last night. This morning I got my kids ready for school and drove S11 this morning. Like I always do. The drive takes maybe 8 mins there and back. When I get home, H is in the driveway getting some stuff he needs from shop. tells me that he needs a bag of stuff from house. I went into the house and locked door behind me. I gathered his stuff and by this time he is at the door ringing the doorbell. I opened the door handed him his bag and closed it.

The dirty looks where coming right through the door....I could feel them. I don't know how he can expect me not to be angry. At least I didn't until i was doing some reading on here last night.

He doesn't expect me to be angry because I have let him do this to me over and over again. I have become his special little doormat. Well enough is enough. I have to make my boundaries much more firm. No more of this childish behavior. Either he mans up or he goes away.

Anyways, sorry for more rambling. Just need to vent this and be able to go back and re-read what I am thinking so I dont forget.

Me:35, 2 kids from PR
H: 37, 2 kids with me
T: 15 years
M: 8 years in Feb.
Second walk out: 14-01-2011
H had PA: 2007