V day was hard on me and many here, including you.

The general consensus in terms of behaviour was to not place any focus on it and not make any unwanted gestures of affection.

In most cases our spouses are not where we are. They have emotionally left us, are "done", and feel a great deal of guilt.

I hope for your sake that your act has the effect you wish it would have on your W, what she will do with your gesture is in God's hands now.

(((Firstlove)))

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Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.