I went old school....flowers, including some of her favorites that were in her wedding bouquet....bottle of great Spanish wine, from a region we visited and where she had a great time on a vacation,....some nice chocolates, but not many as she is concerned about her weight.
The sex was great!
My alternate would have been coupons for foot massages and/or a commercial massage/spa day, but all is well.
I think that I need to do flowers more often.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
