Ok. Goal this AM.

1. I will not call or text wife today.

We have couples therapy tonight at 6:30, so I am sure she will ask me at some point what time she wants me to pick her up.

I am also kind of cheating at this point, because she did come over at 7:30 this morning to pickup my S but brought breakfast and stuck around until 10:00 while I worked. These are both good signs.

Have to start with easy goals first, though. Detaching is something I have been working on, and I often find myself missing my wife and sending her a ton of texts throughout the day.


Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated