WAW Staying Positive Is Positively Painful

[Queen_of_Swords]

Blessed2BeADad

IMHO, this is so not about you.

This is all about her Dad. Your feelings don't even cross her mind, her kids' welfare beyond a vague caring don't either. That's why she's able to toss off such hurtful comments.

She is indifferent at best, totally focused on her needs, feelings and desires. She's looking at the short term, small picture. You're looking at the long term , big picture.

Have you taken a look over at the Mid Life Crisis forum? You might want to look over the resources list, to see if it fits your wife.

Here is a link to my thread. Third post by Cadet contains a list of reading. Hope it helps you gain some understanding and clarity:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...924#Post2121924