You are focusing way too much on the OM right now...
And right now. you are more of an obstacle to yourself then he is...
She is watching right now, to see a new you.
Right now your actions should be speaking louder than anything you say.
By obsessing on the OM, you are giving him all of your power in what you can or can't do.
When you become the man you envision, he will fall away...
Question ?
Are you more afraid of him ?
Or of reconciliation , then slipping back into familiar patterns of behavior ?
I'm just not convinced you are sure of yourself..
There was an excellent discussion on Sparks14's thread last week about who is more wrong in what has happened in the past...That was why I asked you to read it when we talked...
I agree with Grit here...you are in a great position to find out who you are right now...
As long as you stop looking to her for the answers...
