Sounds like you are in a promising place, as far as your sitch. I debated about texting H a Happy Valentines, and decided against as I thought it might be seen as pursuing. Now I'm kicking myself for not following through; but nothing from him either, even when I texted him about son. Guess that's just the bad sitch we are in.
On the happier side, I got flowers at school from D, S and future SIL. I took them home to use as the centerpiece for dinner. About ten of us ate and spent the evening together. That made for an easier evening, and the table looked awesome.
I have to contact H later today, so guess I could throw in a belated HVD, but maybe that is worse.
